When you come to Jesus,you cannot stay in your sin.
You must be born again and become a completely new person.
If you haven’t been changed and are still living in sin it’s because you haven’t been born again.
The rebirth makes you a completely new person.
Your desires are changed and God’s holiness will not become a burden to you because the Spirit of God in you will make you desire holiness and you will obey the Lord with joy because you love Him.
When you get born again,sin becomes tormenting to you because of the Holy Spirit in you.
If your desires haven’t changed and you still continue in sin cussing, fornicating, drinking, smoking, flirting, masturbating, watching porn, entertaining yourself with ungodly things, and all other sin,then it means you have not yet been born again.
You must go on your knees and ask the Lord to give you a new heart.
You take the first step by not continuing in your sin but cutting off your sin, repenting and asking for forgiveness.
Then you must pray for the yoke of sin to be broken so that you do not keep going back to your sin.
You must pray for God to fill you with the Holy Spirit.
When He does,you will become a completely new person.
You will not continue to struggle in your sin because the Spirit of God in you will make sin undesirable.
The same way you do human things without effort because you were born a human being, when you get born of the Holy Spirit you will do the will of God because it will become natural for you to do that.
God is willing to give you the Holy Spirit.
Ask for the baptism of the Holy Spirit.
“If you then, being evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to those who ask Him!”